I am naturally submissive and he is naturally dominant, so once we tapped into those deep feelings, our marriage just got better and better! He is happy because his needs are being met – he has a calm, happy, obedient wife, and I am happy because my needs are being met – I am able to depend on a loving, strong, protective man.
Truly, nothing makes me happier than having him walk in the house after he's worked hard all day. When he sits down (after a big hug and kiss at the door!) I immediately kneel down and take off his shoes, get him what he wants to drink, bring his paper and mail to him, and then we share what's happened in our days. I treat him like the king that he is, and he treats me like a princess.
Of course, there are times when I make mistakes or forget to do something that I was supposed to do. Other times I might be cranky or PMS-ing, and I sometimes say something smart or snappy to him in a disrespectful tone. I always get an immediate reaction from him when I do that. I have had a sore bottom more than once for having a smart mouth or back-talking to him! But I have become a better person than I was before he took me in hand.