For us, it works!
For us, it works!
Yes, yes, yes -- I am very happy! Please understand that we are in a peaceful, loving relationship. My husband is very calm and never arrogant or violent. I would never be in such a relationship. My submissive nature has been allowed to bloom over the last few years. The micromanagement part of our relationship is fairly new, and it's really not a big part of our relationship. I guess you could say that it's just a little thing that reminds me every day that I am under my husband's control and guidance, which is almost an erotic feeling for me. It's definitely a comforting feeling!
I am a smart woman, and my husband knows that. However, I am very emotional and sensitive, which sometimes interferes with rational thinking! My husband is very logical and practical (even though he is sensitive to my feelings), so the idea of making a list of things to take care of every day has just evolved naturally. I always felt bad, and not very responsible, after I forgot to do different things that we had talked about. So I guess you could just call it a "To Do" list, instead of calling it micromanagement.
All of us are different, and what works for one relationship doesn't work for another. I would actually like to be disciplined in other ways than OTK spankings and discussions (after reading the articles on using a switch!), but I don't think my sweet husband would carry my discipline that far because I really am a submissive and obedient wife most of the time. And I don't want to mess anything up by acting up because he trusts me to be a good wife. I try to never let him down.
As far as serving him and treating him like a king when he gets home, that just comes naturally to me, so I can't really explain it. I must say to other women out there -- if you want to be treated like a princess, then start respecting your man and treat him like a king! Unless he is an abusive jerk, he will respond with love and kindness, and you will both be happier in your relationship! The benefits of being a loving, submissive, obedient wife are great!